“You’re Fired!”-Donald Trump Style: $trategy for Unemployment-Part 1

It has happened to some of us: being fired or laid off. I wanted to include some statistics about how the average adult experiences this so many times in a lifetime. Then I thought about it and realized it wouldn’t help. Who cares about how you are becoming another statistic!  Who needs a speech or a quote about how “everything’s going to be ok.”! Reality has slapped you in the face and now you want to swing back, right? You need a plan for you to keep moving forward.

So after you clear out your desk, what do you next? Obviously, you leave the premises. But what do you do when you get home?  Having a strategy is essential to any change, improvement, or progress, especially in dealing with unemployment. The purpose of the strategy is forcing you to evaluate the circumstances from all aspects, the most important being finances. This a moment when being fired can force you to be financially fit.

I have some tips created based on what I did after I was laid off in October 2012. I know that my outlook may be different than others. However, I believe my experience is teachable moment. But here is an outline what I did the same day I was let go.

1). Get everything you have coming to you!

If you have not kept track, find how much paid-time off benefits have left. This includes unused vacation and sick days. Also find out if you will receive a severance package. Some employers offer severance pay if you have been laid off. Also, now would be the time to find out when your health benefits expire (if applicable). Be sure to ask about any retirement options in which you are enrolled. Leaving or moving retirement accounts and benefits is a critical decision to make in regards to your financial future. Finally, mark on a calendar or set a reminder in your email or phone of the day that you will get your last paycheck.

2). Let it all hang out!

Get all emotions and thoughts about what just happened out of your system. Do not hold it inside. Get it out so the dust can settle before your next move. The first person you should tell is someone who is the most important in your life. After all, you are going to need them now, more so than ever!

3). Brush yourself off, build your network and use your resources.

As soon as you can, update your resume! If you do not have one, use this template or build one on job board sites like Careerbuilder.comor Monster.com. LinkedIn and Facebook are also good places to start a resume. A good book in times like this is The Resume and Cover Letter Phrase Book by Nancy Schuman (ISBN-13: 978-1-4405-0981-0).

Ask for a letter of recommendations from previous supervisors, direct reports, and anyone who was in a position to mentor you. These letters will give you insight to how others value you and what you can ask for in the job market. Granted, I am not a career columnist or expert. Yet, I do know the power of a well written resume and cover letter and a list of contacts who can verify my “awesomeness”.

4). File for Unemployment.

Most states have made it convenient for former employees to file their initial claim. In some states you can submit these claims online. When your are calm enough, get your most recent paystub and last year’s tax return out and file your unemployment claim. Having this financial information will prepare you for any questions you make have to answer. It also prepares you for the next day.

5). Don’t do anything else, just be YOU.

After you ranted and raved, gathered information, updated information, and submitted information: RELAX. Just for a little while. Give yourself time to pull it all together so you can be more effective the next day. TAKE THE REST OF THE DAY OFF!